In 2000, voters across the state passed (by a majority of over 61%) Prop 22, which said that marriage was between a man and a woman. That just wasn't good enough for some judges, though, was it? No. These activist judges came together to castigate the California public for being so closed-minded and to go over the heads of the voters because, after all, these 7 people clearly know what is best for the state. This ABSURD decision by the court has resulted in gay marriage becoming legalized (if only temporarily) rather publicly, with celebrities like Ellen DeGeneres marrying her partner in a ceremony she shared with magazines and her viewers.
Allowing Prop 8 to be defeated doesn't just give same sex couples the right to wed, however. It gives the state government the authority to sue churches and arrest ministers who decry gay marriage or refuse to allow the ceremonies to take place in their churches. It allows the state to tell children all about marriage and same-sex marriage, regardless of the parent's wishes in the matter. It allows the state to arrest wedding photographers, caterers, deejays, and other professionals who refuse to serve at same-sex ceremonies because of their own personal religious beliefs for committing "hate crimes."
And although only voters in California get to decide the issue, this is not an isolated law. If gay marriage is recognized in California, couples from out of state who marry in California have to be recognized as married everywhere in the United States, so that, theoretically, these same problems can arise nationwide.
Before you all label me as a bigot or a homophobe, let me say right now that I know many, many gay people, have a lot of gay friends, and am of the general feeling that, hey, if you fall in love with someone who happens to be of the same gender, who am I to diminish that love? I wish that more companies would give gay workers insurance benefits for their same-sex partners, and feel that hospitals and other institutions should recognize the role that one half of a same-sex couple plays in the life of their partner. I am all for not only allowing but actively promoting civil unions as a method of obtaining these civil rights for gay couples.
But gay MARRIAGE...?
Marriage is sanctified in the Bible as being between a man and a woman. As one of my friends so often says, "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." It is the opinion of many that the main purpose of a marriage is to produce children (Gen 9:7) and provide stable homes for them. Same-sex partnerships do not naturally produce children, and while (relatively) new science and modern technology has made it possible to become pregnant in a non-traditional method (without having heterosexual intercourse), it is proven that children reared in non-traditional homes with same-sex partners for parents often have more problems with emotional stability and adjusting to "normal" relationships and family structures.
Prop 8 is NOT a measure that is designed to attack gay couples, or take away the rights that they are already given under California state law. In fact, California already grants same-sex couples all of the rights that it can grant to a married couple, it simply hasn't given it the name "marriage."
While I think that it is for each person to decide his or her own life and lifestyle, and for each person to love someone else without interference from the government, I don't believe that it is the place of the court or the place of the state government to tell me how to practice my religious beliefs or how to raise my children. And that is exactly what Prop 8 would be doing -- giving those rights to the state and not to the people.